More advice from our expert Rachael-Lea Rickards for those looking for love in all the right (and wrong) places.

What do you love about him?
For me, it’s been love all the way from day one. I love everything about him. I love the way he walks, the way he talks. He’s a very caring man, very intelligent, the way he dresses and puts himself together.

Every man wants to feel like he can provide for his woman. But is your relationship built on what you buy her, or how you fulfill her, emotionally and physically? Pretending to be in a financial situation that’s not real is only digging your hole deeper while your bills pile up.

I was raised by a single mom with half brothers and half sisters. My dad had multiple kids. Growing up in Jamaica for the first part of my life, monogamy was just not practiced. In no way am I saying that all Jamaicans are not practicing monogamy. I’m saying that in my household I didn’t see it. I sometimes wondered when I met a girl that there might be the slight possibility of her being a relative. The outside brothers and sister thing is just too common and it needs to stop.

Do you want a life partner or a warm body to snuggle next to? Don’t answer! End it!?Clearly you enjoy torture. Two years? What are you doing? Listen, nobody likes to be the dumper. It takes a great deal of courage to tell someone to hit the showers, but be a man and do it.