Comments on: Black Daddies Club Weekly: Third Quarter of the Game http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/ Fri, 24 Dec 2010 02:02:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Robert Small http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-14266 Robert Small Tue, 30 Nov 2010 17:57:31 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-14266 Thanks Wayne, Dainna, Stephen, Dee and Patrick! I wanted to pick up on something Patrick said. there is a direct, I mean direct link to young men joining gangs and embracing violent behaviour and the absence of male fathers in the home-there is no doubt! The justice system plays a primary role in the systematic destruction of the role of the black fathers role in the rearing of his children period. Any lawyer or brother who has been in the courts would attest to this. Its common knowledge. So Patrick, a candid discussion does need to happen and fast. Hmmmm....now that you mention it lol! (insert foreboding laugh here) stay tuned..... Thanks Wayne, Dainna, Stephen, Dee and Patrick!

I wanted to pick up on something Patrick said. there is a direct, I mean direct link to young men joining gangs and embracing violent behaviour and the absence of male fathers in the home-there is no doubt! The justice system plays a primary role in the systematic destruction of the role of the black fathers role in the rearing of his children period. Any lawyer or brother who has been in the courts would attest to this. Its common knowledge.

So Patrick, a candid discussion does need to happen and fast.

Hmmmm….now that you mention it lol! (insert foreboding laugh here)

stay tuned…..

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By: Patrick Knight http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-14190 Patrick Knight Sun, 28 Nov 2010 21:50:30 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-14190 Great article Rob. Knowing you and what you stand for as a father, I have nothing but respect for you. However, I read another article on Friday in the Toronto Sun, headline as follows: 25 of 28 male murders are Black, Why? "Why?" Well how about the systematic destruction of the Black father's role in the rearing of children as being part of the problem. Perhaps now is the time for more Brothers to start speaking this truth out loud. Great article Rob. Knowing you and what you stand for as a father, I have nothing but respect for you.

However, I read another article on Friday in the Toronto Sun, headline as follows: 25 of 28 male murders are Black, Why? “Why?” Well how about the systematic destruction of the Black father’s role in the rearing of children as being part of the problem.

Perhaps now is the time for more Brothers to start speaking this truth out loud.

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By: Dee http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-14107 Dee Sat, 27 Nov 2010 18:01:41 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-14107 What a well-written piece. Thank you for sharing, and caring enough to want to make a difference. What a well-written piece. Thank you for sharing, and caring enough to want to make a difference.

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By: Robert Small http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-14073 Robert Small Fri, 26 Nov 2010 13:42:25 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-14073 Thanks for the compliments-I appreciate all the comments! @Stephen-I hear you! It seems like a day doesn't go by that a brother doesn't tell me about the enormous problems they are going through with their ex or the courts having an extreme bias against men who are trying to see their kids or even both. Its a jungle out there for sure. Hopefully, the players who are doing everything to make the team lose realize that and change their game play. Unfortunately, some of them won't until the games nearly over. Thanks for the compliments-I appreciate all the comments!

@Stephen-I hear you! It seems like a day doesn’t go by that a brother doesn’t tell me about the enormous problems they are going through with their ex or the courts having an extreme bias against men who are trying to see their kids or even both. Its a jungle out there for sure. Hopefully, the players who are doing everything to make the team lose realize that and change their game play. Unfortunately, some of them won’t until the games nearly over.

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By: Wayne http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-13939 Wayne Wed, 24 Nov 2010 21:58:24 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-13939 Well done fellow Bajan! My team is strong and my bench is deep with friends and family. This is a great testament to your upbringing. Well done fellow Bajan! My team is strong and my bench is deep with friends and family. This is a great testament to your upbringing.

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By: Dainna S http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-13934 Dainna S Wed, 24 Nov 2010 17:34:51 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-13934 What a great analogy. Both inspirational and thought provoking! What a great analogy. Both inspirational and thought provoking!

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By: O Stephen Pear http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-13928 O Stephen Pear Wed, 24 Nov 2010 15:30:24 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-13928 Hey Robert, Excellent article. I firmly believe that men want to be great fathers and will strive to do so. However, there are so many forces pushing them back. it is difficult to move to a different team when you already have one but there are a number of other players pushing you out of the play. Would love your thoughts on that because I believe that is the struggle a number of men especially black males experience. Hey Robert,
Excellent article. I firmly believe that men want to be great fathers and will strive to do so. However, there are so many forces pushing them back. it is difficult to move to a different team when you already have one but there are a number of other players pushing you out of the play. Would love your thoughts on that because I believe that is the struggle a number of men especially black males experience.

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By: mark j http://swaymag.ca/2010/11/black-daddies-club-weekly-third-quarter-of-the-game/comment-page-1/#comment-13843 mark j Tue, 23 Nov 2010 14:23:36 +0000 http://swaymag.ca/?p=8667#comment-13843 Well done Robert. And that's not a metaphor :-) "You cannot beat a good mother & father", - my Dad. Well done Robert. And that’s not a metaphor :-)

“You cannot beat a good mother & father”, – my Dad.

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